How it started

My name is Siaron West, I have been married to Peter Rees for 12 years and we have a 7 year old daughter Catrin.

Pete was diagnosed with Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis in 1995 and for the last 6 years has been severely disabled whereby he is confined to a wheelchair with a catheter and a feeding tube into his stomach.
He currently has a small amount of movement in his left hand only and communicates by shaking or nodding his head.
When he is unwell or tired he cannot operate a remote control for the bed, chair or television and is totally unable to communicate.
His condition is terminal, he continues to deteriorate and it is uncertain how much longer he will live.

I provide the majority of his care (medical, nursing and social) but we have some assistance from Home-care (Social Services) and the Independent Living Fund (ILF).
Home-care can provide personal care in the form of 2 carers to wash and dress Pete in the mornings and to put him to bed at night along with two 15 minute check calls during the day.

The Independent Living Fund is funded centrally by the government and its aim is to keep disabled people in their own homes by providing the means for them to employ their own carers and live as independent a life as possible.

The ILF money enables us as a family to live as normal a life as is possible under the circumstances. We use the ILF money to pay for sitters so that I can work, socialise and take Catrin to and from school and do other activities with my daughter.
I also run two children’s and youth clubs on a local estate.
Both Home-care and the ILF are means tested and we pay a certain amount towards Pete’s care.
This care package has been in place for the last 6 years, it works very well and all we want is for this to continue.

Social Services are keen to reassess Pete as they feel that his care should be funded by the NHS.
This would be free to us and not means tested but would mean that the total cost for his social care would have to be met by the NHS and not the Local Authority.

This means that we would lose both Home-care and the Independent Living Fund and may result in Pete having to be placed in a Nursing Home which is likely to be more expensive for the tax-payer.